I'll start this post by saying that I wrote this so that I will not forget all the details of our adventure a couple weeks ago. WARNING: it is VERY long!
On Monday night, November 2nd, we were sitting in small group talking about being a lukewarm Christian. That's when we heard a loud crash and then the cry of one of the kids upstairs. This crying kid ended up being Preston. He had fallen off a toy about 3 feet off the carpet. Jeff calmed him down and he started playing again.
About 5 minutes later, one of the boys came downstairs and told us that Preston's arm was starting to swell. I went upstairs and got Preston and ended up holding him in my lap for the next 45 minutes so that we could finish our discussion. By the end of our meeting, Preston's arm right below his elbow had gotten really big and was pretty hard. That's when a couple of the ladies said that we needed to get it checked out. They told us where the closest Lebonheur minor med to our house was so Jeff and I loaded up the kids and we were on our way. We got there at about 9:15 and said a prayer in the parking lot that God would protect us all from any sickness that might be lingering in the building.
When we walked in, there was no one in the waiting room! As I was filling out paperwork, the Dr. came out into the waiting room and looked at Preston's arm. She immediately sent us back for x-rays and then took us back to a room. They gave Preston some Tylenol with Codeine after determining that it was indeed broken. The first dose he promptly spit out so they had to give him another dose followed by a couple sips of blue Gatorade.
After that, they wrapped his arm in a splint and sent us to the ER. Thankfully, Jeff's parents were able to drive out and meet us at the minor med and take Emily (who was charming everyone in the minor med) home to spend the night with them. We got to the parking garage at Lebonheur about 11:30 pm and prayed again that God would shield us. Once we finally arrived in the ER, we sat down and were called back within 5 minutes! Another way God was showing His hand in everything. Around 2am, the orthopedic Dr. came in and told us that Preston had a Supracondylar fracture. Basically, it's a break right at the elbow that requires SURGERY! They put an iv in P and then sent us up to a room. We got to our room around 3:30 and Preston and Jeff were asleep by 4. Of course, I was not able to sleep because I had just been told that my baby boy was about to undergo surgery. He had the surgery Tuesday morning at 9am and spent the day recovering while watching Scooby Doo. We were able to go home Wednesday afternoon, but not before we stopped by Target to get him a Spider Man toy.
Preston has recovered very well and we are so proud of him for being so brave!
Monday, November 16, 2009
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Preschool update
Preston and Emily (and their teachers) survived their first week of preschool! Emily's teacher says that Emily is a little cuddle bug and Preston is amazing us with all that he is learning. Here is a picture of what he colored last week:
Preston, we could not be more proud of you!
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
PRESCHOOL 9.14.09
Preston and Emily started preschool at Getwell Road Methodist Day School on Monday. I have seen a lot of programs and this is not a Mother's day out program. It is a full blown preschool that is just offered 2 days a week. When I toured it in April, I was blown away by how structured they were and couldn't wait for the kids to start going. All summer, Preston would ask when he was going to go to school. He was so excited. So, Monday came and Jeff and I took the day off so that we could take them and pick them up. Preston had attended 2 different Mother's Day Out programs in the past, but Emily had never been a part of one. There were no tears that morning much to my surprise and when we picked them up, they didn't want to leave. Emily's teacher said that she was pretty standoffish at the beginning, but by nap time, she had to get on to Emily a couple times because she would not stop talking. Who would of ever thought that one of the Shands kids that never talk to people would get in trouble because they wouldn't stop?! When we got in the car to go home, we asked Preston if he made any friends and he said yes. When we asked him what their name was, he told us all about a little girl in his class that was very pretty. Jeff asked him if he thought she was prettier than Mommy or Emily and he said "uhh yeah!" As if he was shocked that Jeff needed to ask after he had told us that she was very pretty! Oh my word, I'm not ready for the girl liking business! It is very sweet though. While they were at school, Jeff and I got to spend a few hours of pure adult time. We really didn't know what to do with ourselves. We had to run some errands and then decided at 11:00 that we would go ahead and go to lunch (we didn't know what else to do!) After lunch, we went to Kohl's and sat in massage chairs. Jeff looked like he was in pain the whole time, but I enjoyed every minute of it! It's amazing the things you can do when you don't have kids tugging on you or screaming because he gets to walk and she has to ride, or because we won't buy them a toy even though we just bought them one the day before and the list could go on and on! Overall, we all had a fantastic day and are so blessed that the kids can be a part of such a wonderful program.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Happy 2nd Birthday Emily
2 years ago on Thursday, August 23rd, in a room filled with love, Jeff, Mom, and LeeAnn watched as Emily Kate made her grand entrance into this big world. She was so tiny (6lbs, 6oz) and was the most beautiful little girl I had ever seen. When we arrived home on Friday afternoon, the house was full of family. Preston, Mom, Barrett, LeeAnn, Elliott, and Abigail all greeted us and couldn't wait to get their chance to hold sweet Emily. It was one of the most precious times in our lives. A time that I will never forget.
The first year was very rocky, but with the help of some medicine and prayers, we all made it through just fine! This second year has been such a whirlwind. I'm learning more and more how fast time flies when you are having fun! We have spent this year doing so many fun and wonderful things, but I think one of my favorite things has been hearing Emily sing. She loves music, but has just recently started singing Jesus Loves Me. It just melts our hearts every time she sings it. I have also enjoyed seeing the nurturing side come out of her. She loves her baby dolls so much. She loves to rock them and change their diapers, feed them, and push them around in her stroller. She loves her Bubby so much and loves to say "I love YOU!" over and over.
Emily Kate Shands, I hope you know how special you are to our family and everyone that knows you. You are such a blessing to us and we look forward to every minute we get to spend with you!
Happy Birthday Sweetie!
Monday, June 29, 2009
Catching Up
So, it's been a while since I last posted! I knew I wouldn't be good at this!
A lot has been going on in our house lately though. Preston just finished up his first year of playing Tball and did really good. I will have to say that the first game made us a little nervous that Preston wouldn't enjoy it, but after that, he acted like he had been doing it since he was born. He still had to be told to run fast, but watching my little boy run with that huge red helmet made me the proudest Mom out there. We ended the year at a pool party at the coaches house and each of the boys were given a metal and some goodies. We are actually thinking about signing him up for soccer in the fall. I don't really care for soccer, but love watching Preston interact with other kids.
Speaking of other kids, Preston and Emily are going to be able to go to Preschool in the fall! YAY! I am so excited about this opportunity and Jeff said that every time they drive by the school, Preston gets excited and says he can't wait to go. As you know, Preston is quiet just like his Daddy and has really become painfully shy. We are hoping that this will help him lose a little bit of that. Not that we want to change his personality because we love him just the way he is, but because we honestly just want him to make friends and enjoy being around others! Emily is our little social butterfly, but I know she will really benefit from it too. I'm sure I'll have tons of pictures from their first day that I'll post!
After substitute teaching for a semester, Jeff has realized that he has a strong passion for teaching in a school. He decided he would like to pursue this desire and has begun the process for getting a license to teach. He took the first Praxis exam and passed with flying colors. Then came the specialty Praxis. He loves history and decided that would what he would like to teach. Jeff was told by lots of people not to be disappointed if he failed the first time or even second time, but to keep trying. They said the history exam was very hard, but Jeff decided to press on and take it. Well, after MANY hours of prayer by many wonderful friends and family, we got the results. JEFF PASSED! The first time!! We felt like that was an answer from God that this is what Jeff needs to do. It seems like from the minute we got the results (May 26th), we have hit the ground running full speed ahead. There is so much to do and it seems like so little time to do it. Jeff enrolled in a program through Belhaven College. He started class last week and will have his license by the end of September. He will have class every Tuesday night for the next 18 months or so. The program is setup that he will have his Masters in teaching in about 18 months. Oh, how we long for that day to get here! It seems like such a big sacrifice to give up every Tuesday night, but we know it will be so worth it! I am so proud of him!!
I guess that is all for now. I'll try to figure out how to upload pictures and be more consistent in blogging so next time it's not so long!
A lot has been going on in our house lately though. Preston just finished up his first year of playing Tball and did really good. I will have to say that the first game made us a little nervous that Preston wouldn't enjoy it, but after that, he acted like he had been doing it since he was born. He still had to be told to run fast, but watching my little boy run with that huge red helmet made me the proudest Mom out there. We ended the year at a pool party at the coaches house and each of the boys were given a metal and some goodies. We are actually thinking about signing him up for soccer in the fall. I don't really care for soccer, but love watching Preston interact with other kids.
Speaking of other kids, Preston and Emily are going to be able to go to Preschool in the fall! YAY! I am so excited about this opportunity and Jeff said that every time they drive by the school, Preston gets excited and says he can't wait to go. As you know, Preston is quiet just like his Daddy and has really become painfully shy. We are hoping that this will help him lose a little bit of that. Not that we want to change his personality because we love him just the way he is, but because we honestly just want him to make friends and enjoy being around others! Emily is our little social butterfly, but I know she will really benefit from it too. I'm sure I'll have tons of pictures from their first day that I'll post!
After substitute teaching for a semester, Jeff has realized that he has a strong passion for teaching in a school. He decided he would like to pursue this desire and has begun the process for getting a license to teach. He took the first Praxis exam and passed with flying colors. Then came the specialty Praxis. He loves history and decided that would what he would like to teach. Jeff was told by lots of people not to be disappointed if he failed the first time or even second time, but to keep trying. They said the history exam was very hard, but Jeff decided to press on and take it. Well, after MANY hours of prayer by many wonderful friends and family, we got the results. JEFF PASSED! The first time!! We felt like that was an answer from God that this is what Jeff needs to do. It seems like from the minute we got the results (May 26th), we have hit the ground running full speed ahead. There is so much to do and it seems like so little time to do it. Jeff enrolled in a program through Belhaven College. He started class last week and will have his license by the end of September. He will have class every Tuesday night for the next 18 months or so. The program is setup that he will have his Masters in teaching in about 18 months. Oh, how we long for that day to get here! It seems like such a big sacrifice to give up every Tuesday night, but we know it will be so worth it! I am so proud of him!!
I guess that is all for now. I'll try to figure out how to upload pictures and be more consistent in blogging so next time it's not so long!
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Highpoint Church
After Jeff resigned from Trinity Baptist, we felt it was still our church home until one Sunday in April. We both walked in and felt God telling us that our time there was over. We have lots of friends there and it was a hard decision for us, but we also know that when God tells us both something so clearly, we better do it!
Growing up in the ministry my whole life and then marrying a minister, deciding what church to attend was easy- where Dad and Jeff had a job! Searching for a church was something we dreaded so much. We wanted to make sure that it was going to be a place where we could be feed spiritually and we want our kids to grow up fully knowing the love and sacrifice of God. We had a long list (in our heads) of churches to visit. Some small, some large. Highpoint was first on our list so one Sunday in May, we took the plunge and we LOVED it! We both got in the car and talked about how it was everything we were wanting. In the middle of us talking about it, Preston interrupted us and said "God will never leave me". Well, that pretty much solidified our decision to stay at Highpoint. It has been a complete blessing to talk to Preston about what he is learning at church and to answer those millions of questions that he asks us about Jesus not to mention all the friendships he has developed. Yes, our shy little Preston actually talks in the classroom after we leave! We feel that God is going to use Highpoint to change our city in ways we can only imagine!
In October, we started attending a small group with 4 other couples. It was an instant match and we love them like they are our family! We have since added 2 more couples (and a babysitter :) :)) and look forward to that time every week.
That being said, we joined the church last night! Highpoint believes that in order to become a member of the church, you need to go through a class learning about the vision, direction, and beliefs of the church. We were fortunate enough to be able to have 2 of the staff members come to our small group last night and lead us through that class. YAY!! It just feels so right and we are so blessed to be a part of such a God fearing church!
Growing up in the ministry my whole life and then marrying a minister, deciding what church to attend was easy- where Dad and Jeff had a job! Searching for a church was something we dreaded so much. We wanted to make sure that it was going to be a place where we could be feed spiritually and we want our kids to grow up fully knowing the love and sacrifice of God. We had a long list (in our heads) of churches to visit. Some small, some large. Highpoint was first on our list so one Sunday in May, we took the plunge and we LOVED it! We both got in the car and talked about how it was everything we were wanting. In the middle of us talking about it, Preston interrupted us and said "God will never leave me". Well, that pretty much solidified our decision to stay at Highpoint. It has been a complete blessing to talk to Preston about what he is learning at church and to answer those millions of questions that he asks us about Jesus not to mention all the friendships he has developed. Yes, our shy little Preston actually talks in the classroom after we leave! We feel that God is going to use Highpoint to change our city in ways we can only imagine!
In October, we started attending a small group with 4 other couples. It was an instant match and we love them like they are our family! We have since added 2 more couples (and a babysitter :) :)) and look forward to that time every week.
That being said, we joined the church last night! Highpoint believes that in order to become a member of the church, you need to go through a class learning about the vision, direction, and beliefs of the church. We were fortunate enough to be able to have 2 of the staff members come to our small group last night and lead us through that class. YAY!! It just feels so right and we are so blessed to be a part of such a God fearing church!
Monday, February 23, 2009
Here We Go...
So I've decided to give this a shot. With having so many family members that live away from us, I thought this would be a good way for us to stay in touch and show off our "babies". I will try my hardest to keep this updated.
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